Businesswoman and socialite Dorothy Shonga has filed for divorce from estranged husband Herbert Shonga. She said after numerous public disrespect by her husband and father of children, she felt betrayed by the she has known for 13 years. Herbert is yet to sign divorce papers saying he wants his family back, the reason which Dorothy described as stupid.
Below is the full statement from Dorothy Shonga
DIVORCED PROCEEDINGS IN FINAL STAGES PENDING HERBERT SHONGA’S SIGNATURE WHO HAS REFUSED TO SIGN BUT PUTTING ON A SHOW FOR SOCIAL MEDIA THAT HE IS DIVORCED.
After a numerous public disrespect by my husband and father of my children, i felt betrayed by the man i have known for over 13 years. At one moment, he asked for apology and showed remorse and for the sake of our children and marriage vows, i thought we could make it work. But he kept disrespecting me, we had a family meeting where his family asked me to give him another chance for the devil was using him. Whichever demons that found refugee in him, can’t be uprooted and not even prayers can stop him. Many infidelity issues came up and when i confronted him, he openly told me that he can’t survive 2 days without sex. It came to my realization that i didn’t know the man i married and lived with for over 15years. As a mother with young children to raise, i decided to put my children first and living in the world with deadly incurable diseases i didnt want to regret later. So as much this was going to be hard on my children, they understood that their mother was not happy. They witnessed the disrespect and i didn’t want to raise young men who will disrespect their wives. My daughter needed to see a mother who stands for whats right. Am a Christian, i believed in Till death do us part but my husband took that for granted. He assumed since i loved him, i would never file for divorce and i would keep taking him back. I contacted my lawyers and decided to dissolve our marriage due to infidelity. Despite the fact that my husband has begged me endlessly to give him the last chance, my mind was made up and my children are ok with it.
So Herbert Shonga as you continue to behave like a free man, please am begging you to sign the divorce papers. You can’t continue to beg me for forgiveness in private and act like you are free publicly. My lawyers have summoned you a number of times, i have come to your house to get your signature and you have refused to sign claiming you still love your family. Am sorry that boat has sailed and you can’t change my mind. Sign the papers and move on and date freely. I have moved on from this marriage and in a happy place and my children are happy too.
SIGN THE PAPERS AND STOP HAVING STUPID EXCUSES CLAIMING YOU WANT YOUR FAMILY BACK.