Radio and television personality star, Flavia Tumusiime said she was almost swallowed live by American hip hop star Jermaine Lamarr Cole better known by his stage name J Cole. Cole told Flavia at Big Brother after party that she looked so nice and that he loved the interview.
Flavia missed being chewed by J Cole
Flavia thought it was just a compliment but later on, Cole sent one of his security team guys to tell Flavia that he wanted to have a private chat with her. She was grabbed by a colleague not to go there but many of her fans said Flavia could not have missed such a chance. Below is her story on that night.
J Cole wanted Flavia after he was impressed by her
Tumusiime Flavia; Do you ever wonder if our behavior sometimes gives off the wrong signals? In 2012 when i hosted Big brother Africa i also got to interview US rapper J-Cole. I had been so excited about the interview because i was a fan and i knew most of his music. The interview went so well and after the show, my colleagues and i went for the show after-party. J-Cole also came with his team and we were asked to take group pictures, we did, but as a fan, i asked for a picture with just me and him and he was okay with it. After the picture, he told me “shawty you look nice and i loved the interview” lol i guess that is how rappers speak. We chatted for sometime, my naive self thinking it was 2 people having a professional conversation about music. [adrotate banner=”3″]
There were girls that had been set to sit with him and dance with him, i moved away and left them to have their fun, an hour later, one of his guards came to our booth asking me to follow him, that he wanted to talk to me about something privately, as he pulled me away, my colleague came and grabbed my hand and asked to speak to me…she said “i bet he wants a moment with you alone, don’t be stupid, he thinks you are available” i was shocked at this and i told the guard to go and tell him i was okay here and if it was important he can come to us. I was still shocked, what vibe did i give off that made me look like i wanted to go with him privately??? Well my colleague told me, you must be careful how you act around people, the extra giggle, the body language, the words you use could all create a perception you don’t want. Till today i use this advise. Your actions could incite a reaction you are not prepared for so be careful how you relate towards strangers, be sure of the signals you are sending out. ?#?30daysofflavia. Many believe something could have happened between the two that Flavia didn’t reveal.